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It was early November when the lung cancer had been diagnosed. It had started in August. She had complained about being lethargic and tired. That seemed easy to explain, it had been hot & humid for days and she had no air conditioning. Moreover, the first anniversary of dad's death was only a month away...
Despite my plausible explanation, she went to the doctor anyway. We went for several tests and appointments with the specialists. Right after the doctor finished giving her the diagnosis, she turned to me and said "I'm so sorry for you." I could not believe what I was hearing! On the way home, she explained that she knew what a "burden this would be to me."
This was a statement she often repeated throughout her illness. Nothing I ever did or said could convince her differently.
Had the journey been easy? No. My schedule had been arranged so that I could take her for treatments and doctor appointments. During the last month of her life there were daily visits to Sparrow Hospital in Lansing. It was a place filled with memories of both my sister and dad who had spent so much time there. At the end, thanks to Hospice and the kindness of my co-workers and parishioners, I was able to bring her back to the rectory to die peacefully.
Had my mom been a burden? No. Despite all its difficulty, I would never trade the time we spent together for anything. But nothing would ever convince her of that. Even shortly before she died, she still apologized for "being a burden."
Mom was not unusual. Many people who become incapacitated through a disability or illness often feel like a burden to their loved ones.These are folks who are very vulnerable and most at risk. Proposal B would give them the "right to commit suicide with a doctor's help". But many who are so vulnerable may feel a sense of obligation to do so. AND there is no way to prevent this given the secrecy provided by the proposal.
These same secrecy provisions will also protect those who may seek to coerce the disabled or seriously ill to end their lives. This is why many of the disabled view Proposal B as dangerous! Fr. Dave Howell
Please pray that the sick will respond to God's healing will, especially: Lynn, Claudette, Pete, Vivian, Jane, Harry, Timothy, Zora, Mary Kay Davis, Wayne, Ed, Merle, Mike, Tom, Keith, Ruth, Karen, Victor, David and Roland.
On Wednesday, October 28, we will celebrate the Sacrament of the Sick during the 7:00 p.m. Liturgy. All who have serious or chronic illness are especially invited.
ALL SOULS DAY MEMORIAL MASS will be celebrated on Monday, November 2, at 7:00 p.m. We invite all parishioners to attend, but especially those who have lost a family member or friend in the last year. If you cannot attend, please submit names of family and friends who have died this year to the office for inclusion in the prayers.
The Book of Remembrance will be displayed in the gathering space during November. Members are asked to list in the book names of loved ones who have passed away, and they will be remembered in prayer throughout the month.
Before each weekend Liturgy begins, there is a three minute explanation of a segment of the Mass.This column offers additional information.
THE PREPARATION OF THE GIFTS is the first of the three parts which make up the Liturgy of the Eucharist. While this part has changed over the years, it has always remained a consistent part of our Liturgy.
During the Middle Ages, the rite was called the Offertory. But the reforms of 1969 changed the name of this rite to better express its meaning. What we bring to the altar is only a portion of what God has given to us. But during the prayer, the bread and wine will become the Body and Blood of Christ. His is the great offering.
The bringing forward or presentation of the gifts dates back to the days of the Apostolic Church. Those who brought the Gospel to Rome brought this custom with them. Originally, those who had something to offer brought it to the altar. The bread and wine needed for that particular celebration was placed on the altar and all the other gifts were set aside.
The most interesting feature of this early rite was its beginning. Before the gifts were brought forward, the assembly was reminded of Jesus' command: "If you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother (or sister) has anything against you, leave your gift at the altar, go first to be reconciled. Then come offer your gift." (Mt 5:23-24)
So faithful to this command, the assembly would first exchange the Greeting of Peace, which in this setting was more an expression of reconciliation than communion. This custom remained until the fifth century when the Greeting was moved to its present location.
The prayers which accompany the placing of the bread and wine on the altar do not appear in the Liturgy until the eleventh century. The custom has always been that these prayers would be prayed quietly by the presider.Homecoming '98 Monday, October 26, 7:30 pm in the adult ed room, will be set aside for those who have been away from the Church and are interested in inquiring about changes and their place in our faith community. If you know someone who might benefit from this experience, please invite them.
A NEW DAY (Grief Support). If you or someone you know has recently experienced a loss through death, please join us in the rectory basement Sundays at 7:30 pm. Our coming together provides an opportunity for us to share our mutual feelings and increase our understanding of the grieving process. Yours on the journey, Marilyn
We had the most wonderful time with all the junior high students who participated in our first Junior High Night Out. Over 100 students enjoyed the dancing, music, ping pong, games, socialization and time together. I would like to thank all who participated and all the parents who chaperoned, Mike Christie and Jake Johnson for the great music and everyone who made the evening a HUGE SUCCESS! We will be doing more activities over the year! Sacrament of Confirmation please continue to pray for the students who are preparing for the sacrament of Confirmation. I still need baptismal certificates, sponsors names and confirmation names. Sister Maryetta
NO Youth Meeting Tonight we will be going to the Rally for Life at St. Thomas Aquinas, Ann Arbor. All who are going must be at church by 6:00 p.m. bring your permission slips! (return time 9:15). HUNGER AWARENESS RETREAT will be held at St Pat's, Brighton on November 13 & 14. We will fast for 24 hour to raise money for those less fortunate. Those planning on attending this retreat must be at the meeting Monday, October 26 (7:30-9:00pm). Jamboree forms and money must be turned in today to either Tommy, Kathy or me. Jamboree is scheduled for Saturday, November 21, 10:00 a.m.-10:00 p.m. Margaret Callaghan
THE TOPIC OF ASSISTED SUICIDE will be addressed by Dr. Ljubisa Dragovik, Chief Coroner in Oakland County on Thursday, October 29, from 6:30-8:00 p.m. in our worship area. All are invited to attend.
Catholic Book Store will be at St. Mary Magdalen on Saturday, November 7, and Sunday, November 8. They will have an assortment of Advent/Christmas gifts, books, Advent wreathes, music and much more.
TODAY IS WORLD MISSION SUNDAY. Today, in a special way, we share in Christ's mission by our prayers and generous sacrifices through the Propagation of the Faith on behalf of those who serve in faith communities, mission schools and clinics, helping children, the elderly, families and refugees to hear the Good News and experience Jesus' love and peace. Please be as generous as possible and continue to pray for missionaries and those they serve.
The Book of Rememberance will be displayed in the gathering space during the month of November. Members are asked to list in the book the names of loved ones who have passed away, and they will be remembered in prayer throughout the month.
Last weekend approximately 1213 people participated in the Liturgies. These folks contributed
$10,033.56 to the parish. Last year on this Sunday the contributions totaled $8,037.00.
Our Charity & Justice Ministry will have sign up sheets after Mass for the size family you feel you can accommodate. You'll receive guidelines as well as information on the age, size and sex of the family members. The costs average about $100 per family member, you may want to share the cost with another family. Gifts will be delivered Dec. 19.
Sunday, October 25
Sir35:12-14,16-18/2Tm 4:6-8,16-18/Lk 18:9-14
Monday, October 26
Eph 4:32 - 5:8/Lk 13:10-17
9:00 a.m. Dominic Sforza
Tuesday, October 27
Eph 5:21-33/Lk 13:18-21
9:00 a.m. Delores Pariseau
Wednesday, October 28 Simon and Jude, apostles
Eph 2:19-22/Lk 6:12-16
7:00 p.m. Virginia Howell
Thursday, October 29
Eph 6:10-20/Lk 13:31-35
9:00 a.m. Reha Carney
Friday, October 30
Phil 1:1-11/Lk 14:1-6
9:00 a.m. Keith Erickson
Saturday, October 31
Phil 1:18-26/Lk 14:l,7-11
Sunday, November 1
Rv 7:2-4,9-14/1 Jn 3:1-3/Mt 5:1-12a
4:30 (Vigil) Carl Nosal, Sr.
9:00 a.m.St. Mary Magdalen Parishioners
11:00 a.m. John Francis McElligatt
Minister of the Word:
Paul Schifko, Joan Monforton
Ministers of the Eucharist:
Bob Monforton, Sue Tucker, Casey & Mike Clabby, Anne
Loveland, Ron Godek
Ministry of Server:
Beccie Govan, Tim Clabby
Ministry of Hospitality:
Peplinski family, Suzanne & Mike Beauchamp
Minister of the Word:
Bill Colley, Janet Baldinger
Ministers of the Eucharist:
Diane Deater, Marianne Quada, Fred Arthur, Jan & Rob Carpenter,
Karen Polcyn, Margaret Callaghan, June Brown, Kristine Fenton
Ministry of Server:
Dave Carpenter, Brett Quada, Bobby Henderson
Ministry of Hospitality:
Hucal family, Ann Meredith, Kathy Gannon, Jan & Tony Altermatt,
Bob & Donna Sixbery
Nursery:
Jocelyn Denzer
Minister of the Word:
Marilyn & Tom Farrington
Ministers of the Eucharist:
Jack & Pam Hornsberger, Jim & Pam Connor, Mike Christie, Joy
Sullivan, Sally Miracle, Cathy Goettsche
Ministry of Server:
Nate Thomas, John Reineke
Ministry of Hospitality:
Michelle & Jim Yokum, Marty Daniels, Donna Clark, Mary
Ansbro, Lisa & Charlie Klein, Katie Connor
Nursery:
Need
Monday, October 26
7-9:00 p.m. BeFriender Training
7:30 Homecoming (Adult Ed Room)
7:30 Art & Environment Meeting
7:30 Hunger Awareness Retreat Mtg. (Youth)
Tuesday, October 27
7:30 p.m. Inquiry/Journey
Wednesday, October 28
7:00 p.m. Sacrament of the Sick
7:45 p.m. Scripture Study
Thursday, October 29
10:00 a.m. Scripture Study
6:30 p.m. Dr. Ljubisa Dragovik (Euthanasia)
6:30 p.m. Scripture Rosary
7:30 p.m. Music Ministry
Friday, October 30
No Activities Planned
Saturday, September 31
7:00-10:00 p.m. Junior High Night Out
(Grades 6-7-8)
Sunday, November 1
7:30 p.m. Another Look (Catholic Update)
7:30 p.m. Grief Support (Rectory LL)
7:30 p.m. Grief Support
7:30 p.m. Another Look Adult Ed.
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